Dear Carolina Dean,
I have known Thomas since we were both kids. He is literally the "boy next door" and has been my best friend for the last 10 years. Until recently, Thomas and I were very close, however, this year his parents put him in a private school so we don't see each other much anymore. When I try to hang out with Thomas he says he doesn't have time but then he goes out with friends from his new school.I have read about the honey jar and even though mom supports my interest in magic I am not allowed to use candles without her supervision. My question is, how can I use Hoodoo to sweeten Thomas to me without using candles?Signed,Vada
Hi Vada and thanks for your question.
First of all I'd like to say that its perfectly natural for friends to grow apart, especially at your age. You and Thomas are still discovering yourselves and trying to figure out who you are. As much as you still want to be friends with Thomas now is your opportunity to explore other relationships and give him the space he obviously needs to discover himself as well.
That being said, there are a few ways I know of in which you can sweeten someone to you without the use of candles, such as the honey jar you mention. They are:
- Doll Magic: Make a doll in the likeness of Thomas and ritually name it after him. Write your name on a small piece of paper and smear it with just a little dab of honey. Fold the paper towards yourself and stuff it in the doll's head so that he will think sweet thoughts of you. Work the doll every day holding it in your hands and talking to Thomas telling him about your day, your hopes, your dreams, and fears. When not in use, store the doll in an empty sugar sack.
- Apple & Honey Spell: Another spell, which can be found in the Hyatt material makes use of an apple. To perform this spell, first core an apple. Then take a photo of Thomas and roll it up towards you and stuff this down the hole you made in the apple. Place the apple in a coffee can and sprinkle some cinnamon over it. Finally, cover the apple with honey, put the lid on the can, and then bury it in your back yard near a strong old tree. Other sources say that you should bury the apple by itself in a potted plant. The idea here is that as the plant grows, so will the person's interest in and attention for you.
- Honey & Photo Spell: Take a photo of your head and Thomas's head. Smear them with honey and "glue" them together face to face. Put the photos in a pink, or white, envelope and keep this in a safe place.
- Popsicle Stick Spell- Finally, an old variation on the honey jar spell is to take a Popsicle-stick and write your name on one side and Thomas' name on the other side. Stand the stick up in a tall jar and pour some kind of sweetner such as honey, molasses, or sugar-water in the jar. Whenever you want Thomas to think sweet thoughts of you, shake the jar and make your prayer or petition.
These are just a few ways that you can use Hoodoo to sweeten someone to you without the use of candles. Good Luck to you in all your work and as always....Happy Hoodooing !